The book's checklist
- Lower cost of livingEveryday prices run 11.6% below the U.S. average in the parts of Virginia outside metro areas.
- More house for the moneyA typical home costs 7 years of the typical household's income here. Across the U.S. it's 4.1.
- A safer neighborhood1 violent crime was reported in 2025, about 0.7 per 1,000 people (U.S.: 3.3). Property crime: 18.4 per 1,000 (U.S.: 15.3).
- Schools in town2 public schools: 1 elementary and 1 other. No public high school in town: the nearest is Lancaster High, about 6 miles away.
- A hospital close byRappahannock General Hospital is in town and has an emergency room.
- Within reach of a big cityRichmond is about 61 miles away as the crow flies. The book suggests staying within about 60 miles if you'll miss big-city sports, concerts and theater.
A check means Kilmarnock meets the rule of thumb from Frank and Dave's book. An empty box isn't a deal breaker: it's something to weigh for your family. A question mark means there isn't enough data.
For a lifetime
Homes and money
- Typical home value, as owners valued them in 2020-2024
- $282,400U.S.: $332,700
- Home prices since then
- Up 22%Lancaster County, 2022 to 2025
- Typical household income
- $40,234U.S.: $80,734
- Homes owned by the people living in them
- 58%U.S.: 65%
- Typical property tax bill
- $1,341 a yearVirginia: $2,790
- Homes built before 1940
- 3%U.S.: 12%
- Homes built since 2010
- 12%U.S.: 11%
- Vacation and seasonal homes
- 4%U.S.: 3%
- Everyday prices
- 88.4U.S. average = 100 (the parts of Virginia outside metro areas)
Home values and rents are what households told the Census Bureau across 2020 to 2024, so they trail today's market: county prices have moved up 22% since 2022. Everyday prices are the government's average for the parts of Virginia outside metro areas, not Kilmarnock alone. Check current listings before you budget.
Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 2020-2024 5-year estimates; Federal Housing Finance Agency, House Price Index for counties (all transactions); U.S. Bureau of Economic Analysis, Regional Price Parities, 2024.
The people
- Population, 2025 estimate
- 1,4572020: 1,443
- Median age
- 62.9 yearsU.S.: 38.9
- Age 65 and older
- 46%U.S.: 17%
- Under 18
- 17%U.S.: 22%
- Adults with a bachelor's degree or more
- 25%U.S.: 36%
- Moved here from another county or state in the past year
- 8%U.S.: 6%
Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, Population Estimates (Vintage 2025); U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 2020-2024 5-year estimates.
Work
- Biggest lines of work
- Retail (13%); government (12%)
- Unemployment rate
- 3%U.S.: 5%
- Work from home
- 12%U.S.: 15%
- Below the poverty line
- 23%U.S.: 12%
Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 2020-2024 5-year estimates.
Health care
Nearest emergency room: Rappahannock General Hospital, Kilmarnock, VA, in town. It's a critical access hospital (a small rural hospital with 25 or fewer beds). Medicare gives it 4 of 5 stars.
Nearest general hospital: Riverside Walter Reed Hospital, Gloucester, VA, about 22 miles away. Medicare gives it 4 of 5 stars.
Look up doctors, clinics and the hospitals themselves on Medicare's Care Compare. Ask where the most serious cases are sent.
Sources: Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, Hospital General Information.
Schools
2 public schools in Kilmarnock, run by Lancaster County Public Schools. The nearest public high school is Lancaster High, about 6 miles away.
See each school on the federal school search, then check test scores and graduation rates on Virginia's school report card.
Sources: National Center for Education Statistics, Common Core of Data, 2023-24 (via the Urban Institute Education Data Portal); National Center for Education Statistics, IPEDS institution directory, 2024.
Internet
- Homes with cable, fiber or DSL internet
- 56%U.S.: 76%
Before you buy, look up the address on the FCC's National Broadband Map to see which providers serve it.
Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 2020-2024 5-year estimates.
Weather
- January average low
- 29°F
- July average high
- 85°F
- Days 90°F or hotter
- 16 a year
- Nights at or below freezing
- 77 a year
- Rain and melted snow
- 51.9 inches a year
- Snow
- 8 inches a year
- Elevation
- 86 feet
Weather station: N (19 miles away). Averages for 1991 to 2020.
Sources: NOAA National Centers for Environmental Information, U.S. Climate Normals 1991-2020; U.S. Geological Survey, 3D Elevation Program.
Getting around
Straight-line miles. The road is always longer, and as the book says, an interstate at 70 is a different trip from a farm road at 45. Check the real drive: Newport News, Richmond.
Lancaster County is outside any metro area, with fewer than 5,000 people in its towns, not next to a metro area (USDA rural-urban code 9, on a scale where 1 is the biggest metro areas and 9 the most rural counties).
For a day
7 places on the National Register of Historic Places.
National Park Service sites within about an hour:
- Colonial National Historical Park32 miles
- George Washington Birthplace National Monument44 miles
- Fort Monroe National Monument47 miles
- Richmond National Battlefield Park49 miles
- Assateague Island National Seashore54 miles
Read about Kilmarnock's history on Wikipedia.
Tell us what a visitor shouldn't miss, and what living there is really like. Write to Main Street at mainstreet@smalltownguide.com. The best notes from people who know the town will be added here.
Nearby
Straight-line miles.
Small towns
- Gloucester Courthouse, VA3,300 people, 23 miles
- West Point, VA3,600 people, 25 miles
- Warsaw, VA1,700 people, 27 miles
- Tappahannock, VA2,200 people, 30 miles
- Gloucester Point, VA11,100 people, 31 miles
- Exmore, VA1,400 people, 33 miles
Smaller places
- Irvington, VA470 people, 4 miles
- White Stone, VA386 people, 5 miles
- Weems, VA (unincorporated)279 people, 6 miles
- Deltaville, VA (unincorporated)958 people, 11 miles
- Urbanna, VA508 people, 12 miles
- Saluda, VA (unincorporated)615 people, 14 miles
Sources
- U.S. Census Bureau, Population Estimates (Vintage 2025)
- U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 2020-2024 5-year estimates
- Federal Housing Finance Agency, House Price Index for counties (all transactions)
- U.S. Bureau of Economic Analysis, Regional Price Parities, 2024
- FBI, Crime in the United States, Table 8 (offenses known to law enforcement by city)
- Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, Hospital General Information
- National Center for Education Statistics, Common Core of Data, 2023-24 (via the Urban Institute Education Data Portal)
- National Center for Education Statistics, IPEDS institution directory, 2024
- NOAA National Centers for Environmental Information, U.S. Climate Normals 1991-2020
- U.S. Geological Survey, 3D Elevation Program
- National Park Service, National Register of Historic Places listings
- National Park Service, park unit boundaries
- USDA Economic Research Service, Rural-Urban Continuum Codes, 2023
- U.S. Census Bureau, 2025 Gazetteer files and 2020 urban areas
Census survey figures are estimates with a margin of error; we leave out any figure whose margin is too wide to be useful. Data last gathered October 5, 2026. See something wrong? Write to mainstreet@smalltownguide.com.